how do u deal with a family member (sister in law) who is jealous of u ? does it make u dislike them?
Vamparina asked:
I live in an extensive family, and one of my sister in law always notices what ever i wear, where ever I go and what ever I do and she says it out loud that even she’ll do that, or she did that before, which really annoys me and start disliking her, I dont wanna have this kind of feeling for a family member . she is 6 years older to me
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I live in an extensive family, and one of my sister in law always notices what ever i wear, where ever I go and what ever I do and she says it out loud that even she’ll do that, or she did that before, which really annoys me and start disliking her, I dont wanna have this kind of feeling for a family member . she is 6 years older to me
October 28th, 2009 at 11:04 pm
tell her straight up how u feel Scoobi
October 31st, 2009 at 12:27 pm
I guess you should start acting uncaring of whatever she does, if she insists doing it , make her feel good about herself maybe she has some kind of infriority complex lol. bewitched
November 2nd, 2009 at 9:22 pm
Some people need examples to be able to survive in society.
Feel yourself happy that you are the trend setter. You are HER EXAMPLE. That’s great, like a movie star! Thermo
November 4th, 2009 at 2:03 am
be kind to her and see the result . she would be ashamed Happy
November 4th, 2009 at 5:41 pm
I think you need to confront her and in front of your boyfriend in the whole family in tellher kindly how you feel and try doing things with her get opinions from her just try not to take it to the next level cause then there would be lot of problems chaparra
November 6th, 2009 at 2:56 pm
Ignore her. No matter what, keep silent. If you lash out in anger, people will blame you for losing your patience with an elder family member. Probably, she feels insecure and lonely. Another possible reason may be that she feels left out or unappreciated. So, simply ignore what she says. Never ever speak ill of anyone especially your sister-in-law infront of anyone including your sister-in-law. But if she insults you, give her three chances, then put your foot down and give her a piece of mind that she well and truly deserves. Do not be abusive but speak your mind. *Never let anyone walk all over you.* Be kind and sympathetic but always value your self-respect. Little Mermaid