Problems with my in-law family?
Hubby`s Fan asked:
Ok. I`ve been happily married for nine months and my hubby and I are completely in love and synch, except for the issue of his family. They always show up, uninvited (mind you), and constantly call him up in the night (the only alone time we have, even though his brothers work with him all day long). His nephews and nieces always show up in our house, without even asking if they can come, and they are rude (for example, they go into our room and crash our bed, look into our closet, pantry, etc.). Mom in law is nice to me but is always acting sick to grab some attention and manipulates hubby.
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Ok. I`ve been happily married for nine months and my hubby and I are completely in love and synch, except for the issue of his family. They always show up, uninvited (mind you), and constantly call him up in the night (the only alone time we have, even though his brothers work with him all day long). His nephews and nieces always show up in our house, without even asking if they can come, and they are rude (for example, they go into our room and crash our bed, look into our closet, pantry, etc.). Mom in law is nice to me but is always acting sick to grab some attention and manipulates hubby.
We`ve been fighting because he doesn`t feel the need to put some limits on his family when it comes to our house and space whereas I think it`s essential since I feel Ì`m being invaded every other day. Please help me deal with this. Any ideas will be greatly appreciated.
April 3rd, 2009 at 11:51 am
Tell him since he won’t put a stop to this, you will.
April 6th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
me and my wife had the same issue (except it was her family).i tried to talk to her but she acted a lot like your husband.i finally put my foot down and told them all myself how i felt.it won’t totally stop but after i did this it got a lot better..if he don’t wanna talk to them then you do it….you are apart of that family too.they need to respect your feelings as well…good luck