Comments on: what do you do about a future mother in law making you wear her family heirloom for the wedding? http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/ Tue, 22 May 2012 11:33:26 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.7 hourly 1 By: Jennifer B http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2559 Jennifer B Mon, 09 Nov 2009 11:13:04 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2559 Can you have it wrapped around the stem of your bouquet? If she doesn't like it just tell her that's the only option as you are wearing your great grandma's pearls. Make sure your photographer takes a pic of the bouquet.<a href="http://www.telescopebuyingguide.com/radio-telescope.htm"> Jennifer B</a> Can you have it wrapped around the stem of your bouquet? If she doesn’t like it just tell her that’s the only option as you are wearing your great grandma’s pearls. Make sure your photographer takes a pic of the bouquet. Jennifer B

]]> By: truefirstedition http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2558 truefirstedition Sun, 08 Nov 2009 23:09:11 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2558 You thank her sincerely for her kind offer but let her know that you have your heart set on wearing your great-grandmother's jewelry. No one can make you wear something that you don't want to wear. But, since this woman is going to be a crucial part of your family, it wouldn't hurt to offer something else in appeasement. For example, maybe you don't want to wear the necklace but does she have a handkerchief or silk scarf you could wrap around your bouquet? Or could you wear the necklace to the rehearsal dinner? Unless she's a really bossy, pushy lady, she may just want to contribute something from her family to her new daughter-in-law.<a href="http://www.autostires.com/tire-totes-338"> truefirstedition</a> You thank her sincerely for her kind offer but let her know that you have your heart set on wearing your great-grandmother’s jewelry. No one can make you wear something that you don’t want to wear.

But, since this woman is going to be a crucial part of your family, it wouldn’t hurt to offer something else in appeasement. For example, maybe you don’t want to wear the necklace but does she have a handkerchief or silk scarf you could wrap around your bouquet? Or could you wear the necklace to the rehearsal dinner? Unless she’s a really bossy, pushy lady, she may just want to contribute something from her family to her new daughter-in-law. truefirstedition

]]> By: Kimberly http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2557 Kimberly Thu, 05 Nov 2009 19:34:44 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2557 You tell her that your wearing your grandmothers necklace and thats final. She should understand. Your grandmother is your blood she isn't and neither is her family. Your just marrying into the family. But it shouldn't be a big deal and it shouldn't turn into an escapade. Maybe you can wear something else of there side of the family like earrings or a bracelet if they have it. But you shouldn't feel pressured. Its your wedding.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/Letter-of-Recommendation.htm"> Kimberly</a> You tell her that your wearing your grandmothers necklace and thats final. She should understand. Your grandmother is your blood she isn’t and neither is her family. Your just marrying into the family. But it shouldn’t be a big deal and it shouldn’t turn into an escapade. Maybe you can wear something else of there side of the family like earrings or a bracelet if they have it. But you shouldn’t feel pressured. Its your wedding. Kimberly

]]> By: riversconfluence http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2556 riversconfluence Thu, 05 Nov 2009 09:54:56 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2556 See if you can wear it to another wedding function. If not, you get to tell her that you will not be wearing it to your wedding. Think up a nice way to let her down, such as "I have always dreamed of getting married in pearls" Or it was grandma's wish to see me in pearls on my wedding day. She really does need to back off. It is rude to push things off on the bride. She could have said something to the effect that the heirloom necklace was available, and if you wanted to, could wear it. That would have saved you and her some heartache, and it would have been the polite thing to say. Some one is always around a wedding, wanting it to be theirs, the way they want. So, she does not have a daughter to pass it on to? That would explain things. So tell your fiancee that you will not be wearing the necklace, then go tell her.<a href="http://www.fishtrek.com/saltwater-fish-guide/white-marlin.htm"> riversconfluence</a> See if you can wear it to another wedding function. If not, you get to tell her that you will not be wearing it to your wedding. Think up a nice way to let her down, such as “I have always dreamed of getting married in pearls” Or it was grandma’s wish to see me in pearls on my wedding day.
She really does need to back off. It is rude to push things off on the bride. She could have said something to the effect that the heirloom necklace was available, and if you wanted to, could wear it. That would have saved you and her some heartache, and it would have been the polite thing to say.
Some one is always around a wedding, wanting it to be theirs, the way they want. So, she does not have a daughter to pass it on to? That would explain things. So tell your fiancee that you will not be wearing the necklace, then go tell her. riversconfluence

]]> By: cem08 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2555 cem08 Tue, 03 Nov 2009 02:47:19 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2555 Its your wedding, do what makes you happy. Just tell her thank you for the opportunity but you are already wearing a neclace that means a lot to you<a href="http://www.bigguitarshop.com/guitar-84602"> cem08</a> Its your wedding, do what makes you happy. Just tell her thank you for the opportunity but you are already wearing a neclace that means a lot to you cem08

]]> By: Lydia http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2554 Lydia Mon, 02 Nov 2009 08:51:35 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2554 No one can make you do anything. However, depending upon what the necklace is like, maybe you could put it somehow amongst your bouquet, or wrap it around the handle - Like this one shows a rosary -<a href="http://www.freshfacecare.com/blog/"> Lydia</a> No one can make you do anything.
However, depending upon what the necklace is like, maybe you could put it somehow amongst your bouquet, or wrap it around the handle -
Like this one shows a rosary - Lydia

]]> By: Luv2Answer http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2553 Luv2Answer Sun, 01 Nov 2009 03:45:46 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2553 He needs to speak with her and say you are wearing something belonging to your grandmother, that you appreciate the gesture but you won't be wearing it. Let him deal with her.<a href="http://www.bestdrumshop.com/practice-tools-84979"> Luv2Answer</a> He needs to speak with her and say you are wearing something belonging to your grandmother, that you appreciate the gesture but you won’t be wearing it. Let him deal with her. Luv2Answer

]]> By: camy http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2552 camy Sat, 31 Oct 2009 11:40:44 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2552 Well, you can tell her to shove it, or you can make a compromise. Tell her that you are wearing your grandmothers pearls, but ask if she has some earings or some other little family heirloom that you can use. She probably just wants to feel included.<a href="http://www.resumeminers.com/online-degree/education-programs.htm"> camy</a> Well, you can tell her to shove it, or you can make a compromise. Tell her that you are wearing your grandmothers pearls, but ask if she has some earings or some other little family heirloom that you can use. She probably just wants to feel included. camy

]]> By: Mississippi Mud http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2551 Mississippi Mud Wed, 28 Oct 2009 22:40:58 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2551 Ugh,your the bride so you get to decide.I can't believe some MIL's.<a href="http://www.medicalsupplyservices.com/canadian-medical-supply.htm"> Mississippi Mud</a> Ugh,your the bride so you get to decide.I can’t believe some MIL’s. Mississippi Mud

]]> By: I love my love http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/comment-page-1/#comment-2550 I love my love Sun, 25 Oct 2009 14:06:19 +0000 http://www.familylawmadeeasy.com/blog/what-do-you-do-about-a-future-mother-in-law-making-you-wear-her-family-heirloom-for-the-wedding/#comment-2550 no one can tell you what jewelry to wear, for a wedding or on any other day. it's a free country. this woman sounds like a robo beoch, ordering you around thru her son! tell her to either wear the necklace herself, or you can fasten it inside your dress if she's so concerned about it being on your person. then you can just leave it at home, don't even bother with it.<a href="http://www.healthstorebargains.com/srch/srch.php?q=Immune"> I love my love</a> no one can tell you what jewelry to wear, for a wedding or on any other day. it’s a free country. this woman sounds like a robo beoch, ordering you around thru her son! tell her to either wear the necklace herself, or you can fasten it inside your dress if she’s so concerned about it being on your person. then you can just leave it at home, don’t even bother with it. I love my love

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